I’ve spent 7 years amassing stuff… well, that’s only since I moved to Indiana, so I’ve really spent 25 years on the entire collection. And now I have two more weeks to let it all go. All but 36 Kilos worth.
I’ve got ads up on Craig’s List for most of my furniture – the bedroom set my dad and brother built from a Wal-mart kit after I graduated from Anderson, the desk and chair I found in “The Wreck Room” at the Anderson Antique Mall, the 1920’s waterfall dresser I bought in Southern Indiana, and the Salvation Army chair that was my solace during freshman year living in Rice Hall. A Muslim woman came over tonight to try out the couch. A friend is taking the rug. Bargain hunters haggled me on the price for my Ikea bookshelves.
That’s not including the three big trash bags I took to Goodwill, each filled with old clothing, extra towels, things I no longer use that aren’t worth much to anyone else. I figure the folks around here will get good use out of my Reggie Miller t-shirts and pointy silver shoes. Then there were the two boxes of books I sold to Half Price Books for pennies… each volume holding a special memory of the time in my life when I retreated to his pages.
Meanwhile, I paint over the walls of my home for the last 2 1/2 years… the blue kitchen, the green bathroom, the tan living room and decorative “snakes” around the ceiling of my bedroom. I stopped cleaning a while ago, knowing I’ll just have to do one massive clean when the place is empty. And it must be empty by November 30.
I’m making this sound really melancholy, I know, when this is actually a very exciting time in my life. It’s every bit as freeing as it is scary to reduce all the STUFF I’ve collected down to two suitcases full. Well, and a few boxes (who am I kidding?). It’s just settling in on me how much growing up this year I’ve had to do, and how much I’m sure still awaits me.
I am moving to Ireland. I fly out on New Year’s Eve.
I am doing all I can to get a job and a Visa, though I could very well get kicked out of the country after three months (I planned ahead and bought a round trip flight!). I’m selling what I can, working as much as I can, and eating all the Ramen I can to save money so I can live for three months if I don’t find a job. I’m really excited about the possible opportunities in something new and different… maybe non profit,writing, missions, children, art… who knows!?! I’m also excited about finding a new church family and volunteering with them as I do here.
Frank is looking for a little apartment for me. I’ve given my notice to a very-supportive Heartland staff and have been telling my family, one member at a time. My friends and church have been amazing through everything.
A little further down the road, maybe next fall, Frank and I are getting married!!! He asked me while he was here and I am still just in a state of shock that I could be so lucky. It seems like just the other day I was meeting him at the 2006 Heartland Film Festival, never knowing what our future would hold. God has truly blessed me with this man and, thinking about him now, I just don’t believe my heart could feel any more full. The face of happiness is more beautiful than I could have imagined. But now I’ll stop with the sloppy romantic stuff, hee hee.
So here I go!?! Off on a new adventure, no doubt it’ll be full of surprises, good and bad. But I can hardly wait to start spending my life, at last, with the one I love and seeing what lies in front of this big door I am now walking toward. Even if I get sent back to the USA 20 times, it will be worth it because I know with him, I am right where I’m meant to be.
Prayers and well-wishes are appreciated.
Wow! I had no idea you were moving so soon. I’m excited for you, Ms. Maryann! 🙂
Bless your heart, Maryann. I couldn’t be happier for you!
Prayes and well-wishes are forthcoming. | *laughing about the “few boxes”* It’s a beautiful thing that this is important enough to you to let go of Things. | *skips out of the room* “Maryann’s getting married! Maryann’s getting married!”
Prayers. *rolls eyes, whacks head*
That is seriously the most exciting thing! How awesome to move to Ireland of all places to start you life with him. Very exciting and awesome. Congrats to you!
congratulations, MK!! i’m sooo excited & happy for you. what an adventure!! God bless you as you look for a job & as Frank looks for your apartment… and as to you get closer & closer to the wedding! 🙂
Oh, Maryann, I’m so excited for you! You deserve this happiness and adventure! I hope you’ll stop in and share with us still…your Xanga is still my favorite. Thanks for sharing! Tons and tons of best wishes to you!!!
Maryann – this is the most awesome post – so much exciting news all at once! I am so happy for you, and wish you and Frank the very best! Ireland sounds amazing…happy thanksgving!
I’m so excited for you Maryann…what a wonderful new adventure! Congratulations and do keep us updated!!
can we hang out soon. pllleeaassee? the baby doesn’t cry as much…:)
How cool. What an adventure. Remember to say your prayers every night. Good luck. Be happy — you deserve it!
ryc: That was my first guess, but I’m not convinced. Mostly because it’s so bloomin’ tiny — it’d take all day to make a cup of gravy.